I was last week in a set of meetings of 400
people from 93 countries who all do ministry to or through sportspeople. Of
late, the momentum has swung toward serving sportspeople more directly rather
than seeing the primary emphasis of ministry in sport as working through them. I,
for one, am very happy to see this trend.
Below is an article first sent to many of you
in 2008 after some discussions with valued and respected colleagues. I hope these
thoughts help shape the conversation and our service together.
This reflection is also included in the
recently released book, Free to Compete – Reflections on Sport from a Christian
Perspective. It is available in paperback and Kindle versions and can be
obtained through Amazon.com or www.crosstrainingpublishing.com.
Ministry
To or Through Sportspeople?
We who are engaged in Sports
Ministries would do well to ask ourselves some questions for evaluation and
contemplation on a couple of important issues.
Many of us would characterize our ministries as being to the people of
sport. Others would say that their
ministry extends through the people of sport to the world at large. Others would rightly say that they do some of
both. I would like to challenge all of
us with the same definitions and questions I regularly ask of myself as I
analyze and adjust my ministry with people in sport; coaches and athletes
alike.
Important Note: Ministry to
Sportspeople and Ministry through Sportspeople are not necessarily mutually
exclusive. Often they work together. This document examines the ‘primary’
driver of our sports ministry.
First, let’s define Ministry to
Sportspeople in the simplest terms. It
is selflessly serving the sportspeople and God's purposes in them with no
ulterior motive, no matter how noble.
Below
are some examples of such selfless service -
·
Assisting
in the whole-life development of the sportsperson.
·
Offering
help to players' and coaches' families when they are new to the community.
·
Assisting
support staff when they need help with a task.
·
Visiting
players who are injured, ill or are grieving a family loss.
·
Helping
a coach or player who wants to share his faith by training and encouraging him
about it.
·
Offering
hospitality and community to these people often displaced from family and
friends.
·
Speaking
privately with a player or a coach about his or her relationship with Christ.
·
Maintaining
confidentiality re: injuries, illness, family situations, contracts, etc...
·
Protecting
private information about players and coaches, such as phone numbers, email
addresses, etc.
·
Praying
for a coach or athlete when a request is shared in confidence.
·
Sending
encouraging notes, emails, text messages and phone calls.
Ministry through Sportspeople can be
defined as ministry efforts which primarily seek to leverage the influence of a
coach or athlete to share the Gospel of Christ with those within the
sportsperson’s sphere of influence. One
can do such ministry effectively and faithfully if the personal development of
the player or coach is his primary goal.
To seek God’s purposes in the life of the individual must supersede
one’s goals for ministry extended through the player or coach.
Below
are some examples of such ministry efforts -
·
Helping
the sportsperson to develop his or her life in Christ through prayer, study,
community and training him or her in sharing one’s faith as a part of that
development.
·
Teaching
a sportsperson about the Christian discipline and responsibility of stewardship
in all areas of life, including one’s sport, influence and finances.
·
Providing
properly chosen opportunities for a sportsperson to share his or her growing
faith with others.
o
In
public events.
o
In
church services or ministry events.
o
In
printed materials.
o
On
television, web sites or radio.
o
In
sports events, camps, etc…
A note of caution – Ministry through
Sportspeople often displays a utilitarian attitude which engages the
sportsperson for what he or she can bring to a person, an organization or a
cause rather than simply as people in God’s Kingdom.
Some
characteristics of such a utilitarian attitude toward sport and sportspersons
are:
·
Cultivating
relationships with the high profile players while neglecting those less well
known ones.
·
Seeking
the player or coach out only when you need something done.
·
Players
begin to avoid you because they think you will want something from them.
·
Soliciting
donations for your ministry from the players and coaches you’re serving.
·
Using
your position with the team to generate publicity for yourself or to promote
your personal agenda.
·
Sharing
info with the media to enhance one's public profile (being seen as an insider).
·
Using
your position with the team for free tickets, gear, etc… Even worse is to abuse such privilege for
personal gain.
·
Engaging
a person long enough to share the Gospel message with him or her and then
withdrawing from them when your personal mission is accomplished.
·
Seeking
out high profile players so you may tell others, "Player X attends my
church. You should join us." This
may be true, but the sportsperson can feel like a pawn for one’s ambition for
growing church attendance.
·
Saying,
"Sport is a good tool for ministry."
It certainly is, but such a statement betrays an attitude which does not
value sport in its own right.
·
Saying,
"Sport is a good platform for sharing the Gospel." It certainly is, but saying this can make the
sportsperson feel used.
Whether
your ministry is primarily ‘to’ sportspeople, or primarily ‘through’ them: Be
wise and intentional about your ministry. Examine your motives and adjust your
methods. Guard your heart from pride.
Significant
contributions to this article were made by Cameron
Butler of Sports Chaplaincy Australia. http://www.sportschaplaincy.com.au/
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