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Fruit that Remains

The text message below was received from the father of a former Saluki (Southern Illinois University) Football player. The father is also a generous contributor to FCA, and his son is now coaching football at another university. We have great relationships with both men. I believe it illustrates well the value of long-term relationships in ministry. 

“The gifts are very special, and I just looked through the 2 books you sent, and we are excited to put them in front of some quite time reflection. 

It was so powerful to listen to (my son) discuss influence on the podcast. That gave me some energy to carry on and know that doing good work will lift up others and provide influence. 

I am sitting here this morning reflecting on our relationship with the Lipes and valuing the spirit-led gift that was placed in front of us in 2002 when (our son) arrived in Carbondale. It’s simply amazing to feel the impact of what God gifted us with at SIU and the people added to our life at that moment. 

18 years seems like a flash and how powerful to know that God has a plan for placing people in our lives for reasons that are revealed as time moves ahead. That is a true gift that does not rust or lose value. 

Thank you for your presence and for the spirit of serving and caring for the "kids" that God has sent to you. They grow up and reflect the relationship you modeled and continue to model. 

Being an influential mentor is SO powerful and is truly GOD inspired. I give thanks and count the joy of this blessing. 

I appreciate the new coffee mug and books- each time I sip some morning magic, I will have a warm feeling of what the mug and the reflection brought to life.” 

This message and the long-term relationships it represents are emblematic of the sort of ministry I aim to provide. I am seeking ”fruit that remains”, as in John 15. 

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