The month of November in the USA not only
ushers in thoughts of holidays like Thanksgiving and Christmas, but it is
football coaching staff transition season. At every level of American football
there have already been and will continue to be coaches resigning, retiring, and
being fired. Below are some notes from 2007 related to how sports chaplains can
help those we serve to navigate these turbulent waters effectively.
Related
to the outgoing staff:
· If the staff was fired, understand
that this feels like failure and a lot like death to them.
· Help the coaches to see this situation within the sovereignty of God. The
Lord is not surprised by this.
· Understand that the transition is probably harder on the coach’s family than
on the coach.
· Be available to them. They may not want much company, but if they welcome
your presence, be there.
· Be prepared for the termination of some relationships. Some relationships
will live beyond their tenure with your team, but others will cut off all ties
to this place and you could be cut off as well.
· Communicate respect and thankfulness for their time with your team as well as
hope for their future.
· Assure them of your prayers and availability to serve.
· Written communication is very good and can be an enduring encouragement to
them. Send a card, an email and/or periodic text messages to stay in touch with
them.
Related
to the incoming staff:
· Pray for favor with the athletic
administration and the new head coach.
· When a new head coach is announced, send a letter of congratulations
immediately (keep it to one page).
· When the coach is settled into the office, get an appointment to welcome
him/her and to offer your assistance.
· Bring a gift (a book) that is reflective of your desired relationship with
the coaching staff and team.
· A wise attitude is reflected in offering to do, “as much or as little as the
head coach believes appropriate.”
· When discussing a role with the team one can reference his/her role with past
coaching staffs, but don’t lock into those methods or activities exclusively.
· Let the coach paint the parameters for your role and work to build trust and
credibility from there.
· It is always wise to offer to serve with no strings attached. Guard your
attitude from presumption.
· Come prepared to discern the coach’s perception of his/her, the staff and the
team’s needs.
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