During this time of year
there is an onslaught of coaching changes, primarily in college football
(American Football). As of this morning, there have been twenty-one changes in
head coaching positions, just at Division I. Multiply each of those by 10 to 12
to reflect the impact upon their staffs and multiply those numbers by the
members of their families and one suddenly has a feel of the impact of such
changes.
Below is an article I first
wrote in 2007 related to coaching staff changes and how we can best navigate
these turbulent waters while seeking to serve wisely and in ways that reflect
Christ Jesus’ heart. I hope it is of value to you.
Coaching Staff
Transitions
Through my many
years of service as a sport chaplain with college football, basketball,
volleyball, baseball and other teams, I’ve endured several staff
transitions. Some were due to
resignations to take new opportunities and some due to firings. Either way, they’re not easy do deal with for
the staff or the chaplain. Below are
some simple thoughts on how to make the transition and to maintain your
relationship with the new coaching staff, the support staff and the players.
Related to the outgoing staff:
·
If
the staff was fired, understand that this feels like failure and a lot like
death to them.
·
Help
the coaches to see this situation within the sovereignty of God. The Lord
is not surprised by this.
·
Understand
that the transition is probably harder on the coach’s family than on the coach.
·
Be
available to them. They may not want much company, but if they welcome
your presence, be there.
·
Be
prepared for the termination of some relationships. Some relationships
will live beyond their tenure with your team, but others will cut off all ties
to this place and you could be cut off as well.
·
Communicate
respect and thankfulness for their time with your team as well as hope for
their future.
·
Assure
them of your prayers and availability to serve.
·
Written
communication is very good and can be an enduring encouragement to them.
Send a card, an email and/or periodic text messages to stay in touch with them.
Related to the incoming staff:
·
Pray
for favor with the athletic administration and the new head coach.
·
When
a new head coach is announced, send a letter of congratulations immediately
(keep it to one page).
·
When
the coach is settled into the office, get an appointment to welcome him/her and
to offer your assistance.
·
Bring
a gift (a book) that is reflective of your desired relationship with the
coaching staff and team.
·
A
wise attitude is reflected in offering to do, “as much or as little as the head
coach believes appropriate.”
·
When
discussing a role with the team one can reference his/her role with past
coaching staffs, but don’t lock into those methods or activities exclusively.
·
Let
the coach paint the parameters for your role and work to build trust and
credibility from there.
·
It
is always wise to offer to serve with no strings attached. Guard your
attitude from presumption.
·
Come
prepared to discern the coach’s perception of his/her, the staff and the team’s
needs.
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