Friday, June 28, 2019

Divinely Ruined


A number of years ago, while conversing with my dear friend and ministry partner, David Maragni, he said, “Rog, we have been divinely ruined.” My friend’s simple phrase really resonated in my soul as it’s a spot on description of what the Lord has done to me. He has ruined me in so many ways that have shaped my view of the world, sport, the Church, and the Kingdom of God.

A few examples of how I am divinely ruined are listed below:
o   I prefer the sound of sport (cracks of baseballs colliding with bats) to the sounds of music (even U2).
o   I prefer the smell of ballpark grilles or the menthol in a gym to the incense in a cathedral.
o   I prefer listening to the sounds of a one hour sports practice to the sounds of my talking anywhere.
o   I prefer sporting events to motion pictures.
o   I much prefer sports culture to church culture.
o   I prefer being on the field, court, or pitch over free, first row field boxes, or luxury suites at the stadium.
o   I prefer faithfulness over fame.
o   I prefer walking through international airports over driving my car, anywhere.
o   I prefer leading a baseball chapel for 10 players in a dugout over speaking to a crowd of hundreds at a church service.
o   I prefer grace over greed.
o   I prefer relationships over religious ritual.
o   I prefer significance over celebrity.

Dave and I, possibly you as well, have been divinely ruined toward God’s purposes. He has uniquely wired us to prefer things that make most people tilt their heads and wonder, “What’s wrong with them?” We’re divinely ruined, in the best possible ways. Let’s live freely in our extraordinarily shaped souls.

Friday, June 21, 2019

The End of a Sportsperson’s Career


One unexpected, but quite fruitful discussion that occurred during May’s F.C.A. Ukraine Sports Chaplains School was, “How can we serve athletes well at the end of their sporting careers?” Everyone, everywhere encounters this issue as their careers in sport will certainly end at some point. There are a number of issues, problems, and new opportunities that come along with this season of life. We talked with our Ukrainian colleagues about those matters and an outline of our discussion. I hope it’s helpful to you.

The End of a Sportsperson’s Career

How do they end and why?
·        Age
·        Declining skills
·        Injury
·        Burnout
·        Opportunity ends (High School or College)

Issues often encountered at career’s end:
·        Loss of identity
·        Loss of income (or a dramatic drop)
·        Loss of social status
·        Loss of disciplined lifestyle
·        Loss of community

How to love and serve sportspeople as their careers end:
·        Restore or build their true identity (You are more than a _____________.) Ephesians 2:10 and other “You are…” scriptures.
·        Introduce them to a new community (the Church).
·        Help them discover a new purpose for life.
·        Help them build a new lifestyle.


Friday, June 14, 2019

Sports Chaplains and Time Management


During the days of 13-14 May, I was in Kiev, Ukraine for their annual FCA Sports Chaplains School. The gathered men and women were bright, hungry to learn, and responsive. This made for a great couple of days in which I delivered six presentations. I had asked them to outline the issues or topics they wanted me to address, and that was key to our effectiveness. The outline of one of the presentations is below. (By sending it ahead of time, they were able to translate it into Russian to better serve the attendees.)













How will you organize and prioritize your daily to do list? We all have the same 24 hours in each day. Much of our productivity in those hours is governed by how we prioritize the urgent and important matters of our lives.

Friday, June 7, 2019

A Biblical Foundation for Serving as a Sports Chaplain


During the days of 13-14 May, I was in Kiev, Ukraine for their annual F.C.A. Sports Chaplains School. The gathered men and women were bright, hungry to learn, and responsive. This made for a great couple of days in which I delivered six presentations. I had asked them to outline the issues or topics they wanted me to address, and that was key to our effectiveness. The outline of one of the presentations is below. (By sending it ahead of time, they were able to translate it into Russian to better serve the attendees.)










Note: Our colleagues serving in many places outside the USA may prefer this statement of mission.
God’s Mission for the Sports Chaplain:
Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.” II Corinthians 1:3-4










I hope your imagination is catalyzed toward building a strong, Biblical foundation for your service as a character coach or sports chaplain.